Why always girls? Or is it just me?

Right from their birth to their death,  girls are considered to be a creature which are meant to sacrifice, compromise, melt and adjust and all possible things related to this! I agree they’re always kept in a protective shell by the males around them so that their innocence in not misused and misjudged. But has anyone thought of their individuality? I mean why do girls always have to frame their opinions and mentality considering what others think? Why are their decisions not their own? From wearing a one piece dress to getting inked or getting pierced. Why aren’t they allowed to decide their own wishes? Why do they always have to dream keeping SOCIETY in mind? Dude! Why is it to be decided by others that what's good for them, what should they dream of? What should be their wishes?

I asked one of the males in my circle for buying a nice, decent one piece to which he replied , “Don’t forget your culture, the background you come from and belong to. Wear something decent, get a pair of  Denims if you want to .” Wearing a knee length sober one piece is considered as wearing a bikini and going for a prayer to temple! (bikini too has no harm, depends upon personal choice). One day I was wearing knee length shorts and standing with my brother and can you imagine the words I heard from a guy very close to me? His words were, "What were you just trying to show? How characterless you are? Wearing shorts and standing in front of another guy?”

 Getting inked is considered to be a sin way more punishable than killing a tiger! I guess it should be written on the walls ‘ Getting a tattoo is prohibited’ or ‘Dogs and Inked people are not allowed’ or ‘Keep your phones switched off and tattoos covered’. Getting pierced is considered to be a thing which society won’t ever accept and directly comment on the character of the girl. Seriously? This is the only criteria to judge one’s character?  Is it just me or is it a common phenomenon? At first, Fathers take our decisions then are our boyfriends deciding for us what to wear and what not and finally the husbands and the in-laws!!

Don’t we have a life of our own? Will there be a day ever where we’ll be living on our own conditions? For our own wishes? I don’t know if this is only ME or I’m writing on behalf of many others like ME.. Maybe such things are prevailing only in India.. but trust me.. I’m sick of it..Those who haven’t ever experienced such things, I wish you never even experience! Those who are experiencing.. If you’ve a solution, again, ACCEPTED BY FAMILY AND SOCIETY, then do let me know please! Yes I know safety matters, family cares.. but cannot we have our wishes too? 

P.S. these opinions are completely owned by me! No offence!