Girlhood (Part I)

You all must be wondering what is this 'Girlhood'. Is it a new trend on facebook with a hashtag? Or new hot topic on twitter? Or any new topic for instagram?
Well, the answer is No! 

Girlhood is obviously related to girls so please don't confuse yourself with womanhood. Girls as we know are a sensitive and beautiful by heart creation of god. From all their Awww's to their Nail paint's color is a person hidden inside them, who is not visible to anyone even themselves. Irony right? You know what is the best thing about that person? It never stops loving. That person stays strong no matter what happens. They will care for you but won't let you see it. That person will remember all the memories which you have given her, no matter if they can't remember anything during their exams but they will remember each and every part of their lives spent with you. 

We often treat girls as a cry-baby! But we don't know the real meaning of those tears. We think that girls are sensitive and we keep them in a protective cage. But the crux of the matter is, that they are the strongest being alive. If they want they can rule us..better!

Remember if she has forgiven you for the mistake you have done, just don't ever make her curse herself for trusting you again. Consider it as a gift of god and don't spoil it. 

There are times when she's mad at you for no reason. Don't take it to the heart maybe she's showing you through her anger that what all frustration is going on in her mind. Remember they don't curse the world like guys do? She will give you her world to you and make it beautiful. But just like you need shade of a tree you must water it and grow it to enjoy that. Just like this care for her, treat her good and give her space.

An extract from Durjoy Datta's novel 'Till the Last Breath'

As a father, brother, husband, boy friend and friend, you should know that without any girl in your life you wouldn't have been where you are. Just treat her good, she doesn't want your expensive gifts except if you are gifting her a solitaire(as you know exceptions are always there). All she wants is love. 

She notices you much better than you do her, she appreciates every small thing you do for her but won't show it. This doesn't mean she don't care! She does, but won't show it. 

Remember that just the way you respect your mother, respect every girl you know, because your mother was a girl too.  

For part II check this link Girlhood (Part II)

For part III check this link Girlhood (Part III)

For part IV check this link Girlhood (Part IV)

For part V check this link Girlhood (Part V)