'Comparison' . We use this word more often now a days. Have anyone of us ever wondered what effect it puts on us?
Well, it your personality murderer. A very good friend of mine once told me 'You are what, you are!'. At first I took that thing lightly. But when I gave a thought about it, I realized the value of those simple yet precious words which we often hear daily.
We compare ourselves with others and forget that the inner self which we have been building since a long time, is being destroyed by every word of our comparison with others. We compare our looks, our life style etc with those who have better than us. Some think that the person they admire don't consider them good enough or they get offended by our behavior and likes the behavior of others. Then we try to amend ourselves, we try to mold ourselves according to other person's need. But we forget someone else is being destroyed here. That someone is 'U'. We consider our self so inferior that we forget about what we were. This world only value those people who stay original. People will like you as a wannabe for some time and forget you like you never existed, but they will never ever forget the real 'U' if you stay the way you are and love yourself. It is true u can love people better and make them feel much better but it is also true that if u can love others better, you can love yourself the best!! Daily recite ' I am the best!' in your mind and watch the magic.
We were born with a beautiful soul to build a stronger self and not to perish it. Look inside yourself and you will see the whole world which you are yearning for. When you will find your true self, trust me there will be no scope left for comparison.
Well, it your personality murderer. A very good friend of mine once told me 'You are what, you are!'. At first I took that thing lightly. But when I gave a thought about it, I realized the value of those simple yet precious words which we often hear daily.
We compare ourselves with others and forget that the inner self which we have been building since a long time, is being destroyed by every word of our comparison with others. We compare our looks, our life style etc with those who have better than us. Some think that the person they admire don't consider them good enough or they get offended by our behavior and likes the behavior of others. Then we try to amend ourselves, we try to mold ourselves according to other person's need. But we forget someone else is being destroyed here. That someone is 'U'. We consider our self so inferior that we forget about what we were. This world only value those people who stay original. People will like you as a wannabe for some time and forget you like you never existed, but they will never ever forget the real 'U' if you stay the way you are and love yourself. It is true u can love people better and make them feel much better but it is also true that if u can love others better, you can love yourself the best!! Daily recite ' I am the best!' in your mind and watch the magic. We were born with a beautiful soul to build a stronger self and not to perish it. Look inside yourself and you will see the whole world which you are yearning for. When you will find your true self, trust me there will be no scope left for comparison.
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