Stop expecting. Start accepting. ( Part 3 )

‘People closest to us hurt us the most.’ In real, closest people have the courage to be a little honest but we do not have the courage to listen to an honest opinion. True that!

Okay, if someone comes up to you, tells you that they do not like what you are wearing, then what? I guess the first thing we think of is, “It’s my choice, I’ve bought it, I’ll wear it, you don’t have to!” Now, what should I do when someone walks in, criticize me for who I am, and walks off and I start thinking over it again and again and again?

Just think, cannot the same thought, same thinking be applied in a bigger picture? It’s okay if they said that! They might not want to restrict themselves. It’s okay! People are never in our control. What we can control is our thought process. ‘It is okay’ is a solution to most of the problems and conflicts in the thoughts. How can we judge that what others are doing is right or wrong when we do not like being judged? What they are doing is right according to them, do we have a right to disrespect it?

People, things do not disturb us, they do not irritate us as they are not in our control but what irritates us in real is those thoughts which we keep on creating for the things which are beyond our control!

We just need to prepare ourselves that let whatever happen, people are only going to do what they think is right, not what we think is right.

Good luck. Stop expecting. Start accepting.