Mothers .. our true lovers

Mother a word which means a universe in one's life, an emotion that have no boundary and a feel that could never change and a part which no one wish to loose in  their life.“Maa” the first word spoken by  us when we take birth not even before opening our eyes. 

Mothers are not rare to find. Good mothers are. Have you ever wondered what goes on to make a good mother? Mothers comprise of a bundle of emotions that sometimes defy reason. So this goes out to all the mothers who have kept awake all night with their sick toddlers in their arms, constantly uttering those compassionate words, "It's OK beta, Mummy's here."

For the mothers who gave homes to babies and gifted them a family.

For the mothers who yell at their kids who clamour for ice cream before dinner.

For the mothers who defy all odds just to watch her kid perform and repeat to themselves

"That's my child!!"

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Stop expecting. Start accepting. ( Part 3 )

‘People closest to us hurt us the most.’ In real, closest people have the courage to be a little honest but we do not have the courage to listen to an honest opinion. True that!

Okay, if someone comes up to you, tells you that they do not like what you are wearing, then what? I guess the first thing we think of is, “It’s my choice, I’ve bought it, I’ll wear it, you don’t have to!” Now, what should I do when someone walks in, criticize me for who I am, and walks off and I start thinking over it again and again and again?

Just think, cannot the same thought, same thinking be applied in a bigger picture? It’s okay if they said that! They might not want to restrict themselves. It’s okay! People are never in our control. What we can control is our thought process. ‘It is okay’ is a solution to most of the problems and conflicts in the thoughts. How can we judge that what others are doing is right or wrong when we do not like being judged? What they are doing is right according to them, do we have a right to disrespect it?

People, things do not disturb us, they do not irritate us as they are not in our control but what irritates us in real is those thoughts which we keep on creating for the things which are beyond our control!

We just need to prepare ourselves that let whatever happen, people are only going to do what they think is right, not what we think is right.

Good luck. Stop expecting. Start accepting.

Girlhood (Part VII)

She's like a calm river which turns into a volcano even by a slightest wave. It surely drives some crazy but the real one's know the meaning behind her this crazy yet innocent attitude because she cares for the one whom she gets angry within a second. 
She's not easy and that's what makes her amazing. She has that laugh, and the sound of it is so beautiful that when you hear it, it is as if your eyes see her through ears and she is transformed. 

It makes me laugh just a little when she tries to make fun of me. It's one of the best thing to experience. 
She forgave you for your fault because of a reason ,better than knowing that reason work hard on not making her regret her decision. 
She's the type of girl you would love to be crazy with. She will make you laugh with her silly jokes and then claim that you are just not smart enough to understand it. 
She's type of girl you would to click pictures of..not the normal one's but the candid one's because you can capture the beautiful expressions so that they don't slip away. Her every second expression has it's own meaning, the meaning you would love to find but won't be able to find. Some things are mystery which are never solved and that's what her beauty is like..unique in it's own way. 

                                       

Girlhood (Part VI)

'She's a mess of gorgeous chaos, and you can see it in her eyes.'

She's type of a girl whom you will want your mother to meet. She dances to the songs in her head speaks with the rhythm of her heart, and loves from depth of her soul. 

When you watch her making funny face when she dislikes something you wish to hold that expression and look at it all day long. When she puts on make up and poses for a pic she looks no less than a model. Behind that make up is hidden a simple looking beautiful girl whom only few can understand because she's just too complex, but when you know her well you'll realize she's the best thing ever happened to you. 

When you look at her your heart sings 'What makes you beautiful, no need make up to cover up'. 

Seeing her candid moment pics is just a different feeling, you could see her best smile and laugh in it, her adorable acts that are similar to a little girl, in your mind all it resounds after looking at them is.. Just beautiful. 

When she puts on her make up you could see the tension in her while putting eye liner, and when it is done perfectly she acts as if she has achieved an award. 

She acts as grown up woman but inside there is a small girl always ready for mischievous.. and that is the best thing about her! 

Girlhood (Part V)

She looks beautiful with her hair tied in a little messy bun with a strand of her hair falling on her face. You just can't resist yourself from pushing that strand back to it's place. And the best part of her.. when she puts on eye liner without any make up. She puts super model to shame, she's a true example of simple beauty.  

Watching her from a distance without her taking notice is a wonderful feeling. You can look at her carefree adorable expressions because she doesn't know you are looking at her and she won't be conscious. You could just stand there and watch her all day without getting bored.

Her favorite songs told me more about her than she ever did. Half the days, she'd ignore me. The other half her shy smile when I made a joke made my week. I can't understand how she doesn't see the stars in her eyes or the sun in her smile or the music in her voice but all I can think is that if she was a book I'd never put her down.

Check Out :-
Girlhood (Part I)
Girlhood (Part II)
Girlhood (Part III)
Girlhood (Part IV)

Stop Expecting. Start accepting. (Part 2)

This is again going to be a bit lengthy but would like you to read it just like you read the last one. * Your smile suits you *

                                           

“Things are tough for me to accept”. In relationships at work, at home; what are those little little things hard to accept? ‘I cannot accept this. This irritates me, troubles me, cause me pain’. Why do I have to face this? Is there no way that things can change? Is there no way that they can change? Cannot they understand I’m in pain? Is it wrong to expect only this much from them? Is it that only I adjust, cooperate, compromise, sacrifice, understand, try? Can I expect nothing from them? I did so much so much for them. Cannot they come and say a nice line? I took one hour to dress up and they couldn’t even come and say, “You are looking beautiful”? I just expected only this much! Is it bad to expect only this much from the person for whom I did so much?

 Yeah, I am not from Jupiter. My heart, my mind, my brain was always occupied with these questions. It is common though!

It again shows our status of ‘Please give me something, please put something in my empty bowl’. It sounds ugly but this is the truth. ‘Please put something here, I’m hungry’ types. Their one sentence gives us new heights, but their one sentence makes us fall like anything too. If we get appreciated we feel nice, if we do not face criticism but get no appreciation, our morale goes from ninety degree to zero degree!

Is it ok that our state of mind is dependent upon the statements and opinions of people no matter how close they are to us? Is it ok to build our self esteem based on somebody’s lines?

By this we are just cheating ourselves even after knowing the truth. We are completely neglecting the one who is sitting above all, knowing us completely. We are neglecting the God residing in us, which is really not healthy.

Do whatever you want to, for whomever you want to. But expecting in return would produce no good. Trust me on this. Do what you like but never expect things to reciprocate because it is not a give and take, exchange program! Do not make expectations being fulfilled and appreciation a need. It is really not needed to live a beautiful life.

Good luck. Stop expecting. Start accepting.

Girlhood (Part IV)

She is created out of my dreams. No one could carry that face as beautiful as her's. That smile of her natural red colored lips was enough to calm my demons. It was her presence that made everything so meaningful in life. Her presence made a different impact. Something which cannot be described. The fragrance from her hair as they brushed my face were enough to wake up my senses. The elegance and class she carried is difficult for every one to carry. She's just.. different. She has the big eyes of a month-old child. Yep She's crazy but it's worth watching her talk like that. It takes you to a new whole new world. You feel like you are blushing and there is always a curve on your face when you see her getting excited for things she admires. She'll tell you how good is that guy from T.V and blabber about him. Most of the times those are the things which she has always admired in someone but doesn't tell that person. Maybe she doesn't want to or she's too shy.. That's what I feel! She is very practical and very straight girl knows all her goals but internally she has a volcano of mixed emotions nobody knows what’s inside.

Check out:-
Girlhood (Part I)
Girlhood (Part II)
Girlhood (Part III)
Girlhood (Part V)